A Note from the Sunshine Garden
By Miss Belinda
As I was perusing my Facebook page the other day, I came across an article from Respectful Parent’s page that resonated with me, because it serves as a reminder of why I have chosen to work with young children as my lifelong vocation, and why I do what I do when working with young children. When taking a continuing education workshop a few years back, the instructor told us that our job as parents, grandparents, caregivers, most grown-ups really, is to teach children what it means to be human. Children come into this world not only as beautiful, tiny, miracle beings, but also as a bundle of chaos. They need we grown-ups to serve as guides on how to manage the social pieces and interactions of living in a world inhabited by billions of other people. It is crucial that children have adults in their lives who show by example what it means to be compassionate toward one’s fellow human beings. Do they need us to be perfect? Heavens, no! There’s no such thing. We all make mistakes and will continue to do so. But what will live in the children is our striving to do better and be better next time. It’s the most important work we can do. So, on that note, I bring to you the article from Respectful Parenting’s page entitled, Why “Choosing Your Battles” May Not be an Effective Parenting Strategy, by Kelly Meier. An important way in which children learn how to be “confident, respectful and kind” is by the setting of limits or boundaries by the grown-ups in their lives. And by the way – All of the questions listed by the author in the first paragraph regarding doubt? I ask those same questions to myself every day when working with your children. And I continue to ask them when relating to my now 21-year old son and 18-year old daughter. Parenting, like any journey, is an act of faith and trust that, indeed, the universe does have our backs.